Bio
Foreword to Real Dogs, Real Problems, Real Solutions
People are generally logical. We can think things through and let reason guide our daily lives. We have memories so we can know what we did before and how to make changes in the future. As a psychiatrist, I know this well. It is my job to help people understand and reason through their problems in order to make changes.
When I first got a dog for the family, I naturally assumed that she would be rational—almost like a person. She would automatically understand in a crude way what we were trying to communicate. “Good dog!” would make her do something again, and “Bad dog!” would naturally accomplish the opposite. I also assumed that our dog was somewhat robotic in her behaviors and would have a built-in sense not to pee on the carpet or whine when everyone was trying to sleep at night. Buy dog, put out food, and the rest would unfold easily. Before too long, however, these misguided assumptions resulted in significant problems with our dog, and we didn’t know where to turn. In stepped Carlos Puentes!
What Carlos helped us to understand was how our misconceptions were actually worsening our dog’s behavior. Although dogs do have memories like us, obviously they do not think like humans. Yelling at a dog twenty minutes after she has an accident will not communicate what we intend. Correction has to be done in real time and in ways that a dog can understand. Getting angry at the dog breeds fear and avoidance, not obedience. And working on one specific behavior, such as housetraining, cannot be done outside of the wider context of understanding and working with the dog with all behaviors.
Carlos showed us how to reorient our behavioral approaches and daily schedule; soon we were beginning to see a new dog. We were able to enjoy having the dog rather than struggling with her. What Carlos showed us was not complicated or time-consuming.
When I expressed my gratitude to Carlos for his help, I told him how much I wished every dog owner could benefit from his straightforward guidance. And now you can! Real Dogs, Real Problems, Real Solutions is “Carlos-in-a-book!” It is an extremely practical guide to understanding any dog and learning how to resolve common problems. It allows you to break down seemingly complex and overwhelming problems into basic components and then employ corrective strategies. And you have the expertise of Carlos Puentes, the premier dog trainer in Florida. If you are experiencing difficulties with your dog like we did, buy this book! It will allow you to once again enjoy the rewards of having man’s best friend in your house!